Sunday, July 02, 2006

ARE SUICIDES HOLDING OUR BRAINS..??


17 June, 6:40 in the evening, another suicide was reported from the Janakpuri district area. Neha Kakkar, a first year DU student committed suicide by jumping off the sixth floor of a building in Janakpuri. Reason..??Academics..family issues..finicial crisis..?? She ended her life just 6 minutes after she ended her relationship with her boyfriend. Who's the accused..??
These incidents have been raising the eyebrows of many psychologists all over the country. But still the cure hasn't been found out. On the contrary, perhaps there is no medical cure for it. however, psychologically speaking, there is. Its all a mind game. How does our mind work & think when we are exposed to such situations is all that is needed to be questioned & analysed.
Just analysing this frame, one of the plausible explanations for such a thing to happen after a relationship "break off" could be that we keep our "partner" prior to ourselves. We try & turn ourselves in the best possible way for them. We may keep a track of the thinnest & the tiniest of the touching moments that have been spent in thier lives, the only thing that fades away from us is "ourselves". We forget who we are, what do we want from life, our hopes, our aspirations, out desires, our accomplishments, our own identity... So who's to be blamed for all this..??
Its all about mental strength. One question that we all, especially teens need to ask themselves is "Are we capable enough to suffer to 'blues' of our relationships..?" If the answer from within comes as no, then its not reliable to be glad enough to live with its 'pinks'...

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